Tips For Dating

Dating Tips for Men

More on My Personal Testimonial,
Dating Techniques, and Successes

 A Note from Alex Aldrin
 A bit about my background
 When I started having success in dating
 Why information in Double Your Dating works
 More about my techniques and successes

 A note from Alex Aldrin -

This information isn't really about me... its about giving you some ideas and help that may be valuable to YOU in improving your experiences with dating women.  But I think it may be helpful to explain some of my own situation and some of my own experiences and "techniques" etc. to make some points about dating that could apply to you.

You can skip over and jump to the parts that interest you, but I am laying it all down here so you can get as much as you want from this... you can learn from my experiences and thoughts on this however you like, but I will put it all out there for you to pick and choose from.

First, here is a little bit of background so you know where I am coming from.

 A bit about my background -

I am not a great looking guy, and I don't have a lot of money... but recently I have been fascinated with women and have had some good success in meeting and dating them.  I have always liked women, and always been a "sensualist", but I didn't know much about them really... I knew the sensual side of women, and I knew something about how to communicate and be involved with them, but I didn't know much about dating.

I was in long-term relationships for most of my life... and I enjoyed those for the most part. Things were very good for a long time in my relationships, but eventually they ended, but that is another story of course.

Between long-term relationships I dated. That's where I learned about a variety of women and different types of situations. (And it was after I started reading David DeAngelo's Double Your Dating books that things REALLY started to open up for me.)

I mention the fact that I was in long-term relationships because much of my perspective on dating comes from having been in those relationships, and knowing how dating will often lead to long-term relationships.  It also gives me the perspective to ENJOY dating more because of the contrast to relationships and how dating often transitions into a long-term relationship. I will explain more later.

To summarize, I have a decent job, not a lot of money, an apartment, and live in a moderate sized city. I am fairly "normal" for the most part... but I do a lot of thinking and have learned a lot about women and dating from studying it and DOING it. 

Though the principles of what I will talk about later apply to nearly all dating situations, for my own part I am like the "average guy"... not rich, not great looking, not living in a hotbed of dating activity, and just wanting to meet some nice women and have some good experiences with them.

 When I started having success in dating -

I don't know when I first found "Double Your Dating" on the internet... but it was several years ago shortly after I had broken off from a long-term relationship. I was dating at the time, and had been dating for a couple of months. I guess I was poking around the internet looking for information on meeting and interacting with women... not so much how to "seduce" them as how to find them, how to interact with them, and how to get them attracted to me.

As soon as I read about David DeAngelo's ideas and Double Your Dating I knew intuitively that he was onto something important. I liked his style, I liked his ideas, and I knew in my gut that his stuff would help me out immensely, and it sure did!

Here's what happened: I bought and downloaded his books from the internet and read them. I got onto his newsletter. And most importantly, I immediately started using his ideas in my dating life.

I knew a lot of what he was talking about already from my own experience, but lots of it I hadn't actually put into words or concrete thoughts like he had. And a lot of it was new... new ideas, new concepts, new techniques.

I noticed the results of using this information right away. Women responded more positively, they became attracted to me more quickly, and most importantly, I was having more FUN dating.

I want to point out that I am not on David DeAngelo's "staff", and I am not getting paid to write this.

I am using this as a starting point to pass along information to you that could be extremely valuable to you, like it was to me. He helped me in my life, and I want to help you if you want it.

My view is that dating should be fun. It should not be work, and it shouldn't be hard to do.

I also don't think that it should be about "picking up women" and "scoring" and all of that, but that is just my own opinion... I don't judge anyone into that if that is what they need to do. 

I just find it more rewarding to view dating from the perspective of having fun and getting to know and experience women for who they are and the value of learning more about them...  and learning more about myself in the process.

 Why information in Double Your Dating works -

I personally think that the secret to Double Your Dating success is this: it goes against the rational!

If it were easy, everyone could figure it out. The beauty (or magic) in this is that it goes AGAINST what seems the norm, or what seems "rational".

I know some things about women, and one thing I know for sure is that they are NOT like men in the respect that they often do not function in the "rational" sphere like men do. Of course many women are rational, and many may seem even more rational than many men... but my experience for the most part is that they are NOT rational.

How do I know this?

Well, from my experience I have been attracted to women who seemed MOST rational... I was looking for women who were "more rational" than most, women who thought and spoke in rational terms. And that is what I found... until I got to know them and got into the deeper part of things. Then I found out no matter how rational they seemed on the outside, they were NOT rational when it came to attraction, relationships, and men.

Women are NOT rational when it comes to men.  And this is the key.

(Note, if you are a women and are going to write me about how this is not true, a generalization, or "stereotypes" women etc... please send a photo along with your letter... I am always looking for more "rational" women like you. If you are a man, don't bother.)

Double Your Dating gets into how "attraction" works, and how it is NOT rational. It gets into how women think differently than men. And it gets into how men can't "rationally" figure out women.

The secret to the "truth" (for me) in the Double Your Dating material is that it is built on both practical experience and in the psychology of women from women's perspective.

You would be hard pressed to figure this stuff out for yourself, because it doesn't make sense.

But I found out it doesn't NEED to make sense to work. 
From a man's perspective women don't make sense... but that can be a good thing.

 More about my techniques and successes -

I promised to tell more about my techniques and successes in dating... and that will come soon.

I am writing this in "installments", so you will have to check back to find out more.

What I plan to do is go from here and show how I have personally done things in dating and give you some ideas and techniques based on my own personal experience.

This goes BEYOND what is in the Double Your Dating books and material. From here it becomes expanded, or expands in more detail on how my experiences confirm various aspects of the DYD (Double Your Dating) principles.

I plan to link to more pages covering different aspects of dating and both my experiences and thoughts on those.

Some of them will include these areas:

* Situations - Situations I have been in and how I have used these ideas and techniques.
* Specific "lines" - Actual phrases and lines I have used in various situations, for ideas.
* Attitude - My attitude towards first dates and dating, and why that makes a difference.
* Reasons for dating - WHY I enjoy dating, and why it is "ok" to date various women.

And more.  

Please check back and find out more. 

In the meantime, if you haven't gotten the Double Your Dating book yet, you can use the link below to get it right now. It will be the best investment in dating that you could make.

I will be back soon,

Your Friend,
Alex Aldrin

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